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Greetings from The Sophisticatedly Ratchet Podcast! We are an eclectic ensemble of five vibrant millennials hailing from the pulsating heart of culture and creativity, New York City. We gather around the microphone to entertain our tribe with candid conversations, insightful observations, and explosive laughter. As we traverse the complexities of dating, the nuances of relationships, and the vibrancy of lifestyle, our perspectives often oscillate between hilarious and profound. Our fingers are always on the pulse of Black culture and current events, exploring them through our unique lenses to bring you conversations that are as enlightening as they are entertaining. Our mission for each episode is simple, yet profound - to Educate, Entertain and Inform. We delve into topics with authenticity, intellect, and wit, aiming to spark conversations that inspire thought and provoke dialogue. And, oh yes, we strongly believe that “life is too short for bad sex”!
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In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Sophisticatedly Ratchet Podcast, the crew dives deep into one of the most misunderstood and taboo topics: orgasms—aka "The Big O." 💥🔥
🎙️ Episode Highlights:
🔥 Faking It vs. Making It: The Tribe shares candid personal stories and tackles questions like:
- 💥 Can you tell when your partner is faking?
- 🤔 How do you respond if someone confesses they’ve never had an orgasm with you?
- 😏 Does telling a man to "cum" actually mean you want him to finish?
🚫 No More Faking! Inspired by a viral clip about women faking orgasms, the crew offers honest reflections on intimacy, performance pressure, and sexual compatibility.
💡 Mash's Insight: He asks whether body count influences pleasure and reveals his own experiences with performance anxiety.
😏 TJ's Toy Tales: TJ gets real about incorporating adult toys into the bedroom and how it can enhance or challenge intimacy.
💥 Flash’s Story: Flash recounts a steamy encounter and shares his thoughts on women’s authenticity in bed.
👀 Shake’s Struggle: Shake opens up about a time he couldn’t climax, sparking a powerful conversation on performance struggles for men.
💡 The crew also gets real about:
👉 The first time they experienced an orgasm 💥
👉 How porn influences sexual expectations 🎥
👉 The challenges of sparking honest conversations about sex 💬
👉 When is it okay to stay in touch with an ex? 👀
😏 Whether you’re single, in a situationship, or committed, this episode is a fun, informative, and judgment-free exploration of sexuality, pleasure, and intimacy.
We want to hear from you! Do you have a topic request, a question, or want to be a guest? Hit us up at SophisticatedlyRatchet@gmail.com
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - 1:04 Teaser
1:04 - 1:21 Intro slate
1:21-3:21 Introductions
3:21-4:03 Topic introduction
4:03-5:30 Word of the week
5:30-5:57 “The Big O” Topic explanation
5:58- 7:05 “Stop Faking The Big O” Clip that sparked the episode
7:06- 16:22 Crew shares their thoughts on women Faking The Big O
16:23-18:52 Flash shares a story of when he was intimate with a woman
18:53-20:58 Shake asks men if a woman tells you she has never had an orgasm while with you
20:59-22:53 Mash asks Flash if he prefers a woman with more or less of a body count
22:54-26:08 Have you ever faked an orgasm?
26:09-29:18 Mash asks when you tell a man to cum does it indicate that you want him to finish?
29:19-32:57 Can you spot when your partner is faking an orgasm
32:57-36:00 Talking through the porn & sex
36:01-37:21 Keeping in touch with an ex
37:22-47:15 Do you remember your first orgasm?
47:15-49:29 TJ adult toy experience
49:30-53:33 Ratchet thought
53:34-55:38 Mash experience not being able to perform
57:37-59:17 Sparking a conversation with your partner about sex
59:18-1:02:19 TJ on having sex with women
1:02:20-1:04:21 Sex secretions
1:04:22-1:05:19 salutations
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